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My mother is very sweet when you talk to her but she has absolutely no interest in talking about anyone but herself. She acts like a two year old and wants to be the center of attention at all times. No matter how many times I tell her I don't want her shoving her beliefs down my throat, it falls on deaf ears.I have had many nasty confrontations with her and have asked her to keep her opinions to herself and to please respect my wishes. She is extremely lazy, very over weight thus has many health issues because of it.
You feel obligated to take care of your mother and keep her out of a nursing home, but this does not mean that you should put up with abusive behavior.
It sounds like your mother has succeeded in getting her needs met while mistreating first you and then your step-dad.
To the extent the two of you have sanctioned her behavior by ignoring the mistreatment and doing her bidding, she has had no motivation to change.
She is not verbally abusive but extremely controlling.
I am also in my fifties with grown children and a grandchild.