Dating an unbeliever
The same is true of two people who marry but don't share a common faith.Like the oxen pulling in different directions, a couple who doesn't share a Godly foundation will clash and experience conflict.Within that struggle, inevitably the question comes up: Can a Christian date a non-Christian?The Bible addresses the hardships that come with marrying a nonbeliever, so that's rather clear.I was so self-conscious and nervous about the impression I was making that I would do literally anything to go out with him.EVEN drive across town in the middle of winter to pick him up.Something as simple as picking you up for a date can be an indication of your man’s pursuance style.If a man you are not well acquainted with is willing to drive across town to pick you up and take you out, he is willingly sacrificing his resources (time, gas, and wear and tear on his car, to name a few,) in order to celebrate your worth.
If you have invested a significant amount of time and energy into a potential relationship with little return it is time to move on, girlfriend.
While many start off with intentions of finding a godly partner, with each passing year the waiting feels longer and the hoping gets harder.
Slowly, we can find ourselves starting to second-guess our original standards, wondering if we've been too extreme or unrealistic.
I was incredibly eager to meet him, let him pay for our date, and plan the next one as soon as our fabulous conversation over coffee came to a close.
My plan for the evening was flawless, but I couldn’t help but wonder “If our date was supposed to be as picturesque as I made it sound then, why was I so nervous?